Better yet, join a softball league -- you're sure to find a wide array of physically fit boys of summer. You'll find them right up on stage: clusters of men, pouring their hearts out, trying to impress you. Tortured artists are dazzling on stage, but can be a drag in real life. "Strike up a conversation around your mutual business interests, then ask 'How did you get to where you are today?
On the other hand, a nice middle manager (during the day) indulging in some innocent rock-star fantasies (by night) could be just the ticket. ' You'll learn about his path of life so far, including education and goals," says Nina Atwood, author of Be Your Own Dating Service: A Step-by-Step Guide to Finding and Maintaining Healthy Relationships (Henry Holt, 1996).
With the help of Answerology creator Matt Milner, we've asked men from around the country to tell us where the heck they are—and the easiest ways to meet them! Your average stand-up class, on the other hand, is a festival of testosterone.
True, comedians have a tendency to be emotionally needy and self-centered.
My friend Marla used to believe that meeting a man was as easy as following her bliss.
After she and her long-term boyfriend broke up, Marla decided to pursue the interests she had neglected when she was in a relationship. I made some wonderful friends and expanded my horizons.
Then ask a late-bloomer about his favorite Phillip K. Sports bars are particularly good because 98 percent of the clientele will have a Y chromosome. Sure, you'd rather see the new Matisse exhibit; just squint your eyes and pretend it's abstract art.