He communicates with me daily, mostly through text message, to which I always respond warmly.My question: We’re texting everyday, but he’ll wait FOREVER, (in actuality, 5-7 days) before asking to see me again. Is this a downside of dating a typical beta (i.e., no initiative) or is he just not that interested in me?I got the vibe he just wasn’t that interested in me and broke up with him.
And in the absence of giving yourself an entire personality-ectomy, the smartest thing you can do is a) be aware of some of your tendencies to dominate and b) find a partner who is cool with them.
You, apparently, have done both of those things, Michelle.
Glad it turned on a few light bulbs in helping you realize how a few of your behaviors have been ineffective in forging a relationship with a man.
But I have to say that if I had to write the whole thing again, I would have taken a few pages to put in a caveat: This advice doesn’t work for every single woman in every single situation with every single guy.
Do I continue to utilize patience or should I move on?