If you can’t think of anything funny or intriguing to say, just forget the message and add her as a friend anyway.
Before I get into the good stuff though, let’s first see why you should be spending a little more time pursuing women on Facebook, rather than posting crap on your wall no one will ever read. Whenever you want to meet girls on Facebook, just follow these steps and you’ll see things unfold like magic. Spend a couple of hours per week, adding 5 to 10 girls you think are cute or really hot as a friend.
Write an intriguing opening line in the “add message” box that pops up.
The absolute best way to get her to meet is if you speak to her on the phone.
Give her your number (don’t ask for hers) and say “Call me later, so we can meet up for a coffee in town”.
Ok Cupid, which was founded by four Harvard math majors, uses its own questions and those generated by members to make compatible matches based on how much users have in common.