You never know if your true destiny is to meet your perfect man by accident… Open your options up so that you know that you’re not dependent on just one option.
I almost feel evil for saying it, but for some guys just seeing that he might lose his shot with a girl can be all he needs to snap to attention and reconsider his feelings for you… Worth noting, but in this case don’t make this your focus.
The more you try to force reality, the more it’s going to feel like pressure to the guy friend and the more he’s going to shrink away from you and guard himself.
He’ll stop feeling like he can trust you and he’ll start feeling like he’s a target for your own personal conquest.
MORE: 5 Things That Turn Men Off to Relationships Hollywood loves to spread this idea that if someone rejects you, you should just push harder and harder and harder and suddenly, some magic event will happen and you’ll end up together. It’s better I give you a straight-up reality check because reality can be pretty cold when it comes to this kind of thing.